Why Is My Hair So Frizzy?

If you’re prone to unwanted frizz, then rare is the good hair day without your own painstaking  intervention. It could be the hottest, most humid summer swell or the driest dregs of winter; it doesn’t matter which. And, even after years of screaming ‘WHY IS MY HAIR SO FRIZZY?!”… your hair will still manage to frizz no matter what. 

But, don’t panic. Despite the fact that your hair seems to have a life of its own, it is possible to  fight unwanted frizz. It just takes a little bit of know-how along with the right hair care products.

Want to know how to get rid of frizzy hair? To start, you’ve got to know what causes frizz in the first place. By getting to the root cause (no pun intended), you can incorporate the right habitsand avoid the wrong onesso that your hair finally cooperates. 

To better understand what causes frizzy hair, we spoke with Alyssa Bachowski, Senior Barber at Fellow Barber in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Here is her insight and expert advice.

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    What is frizzy hair?

    Simply put, frizzy hair is the sensation that your hair has a mind of its own. It feels dry and poofy and might fray outward in all kinds of directions instead of lying flat and smooth. 

    It’s important to know what makes hair frizzy on a microscopic level, though, because that’s the key to getting ahead of frizz in the first place. Here is how Bachowski explains it:

    “There are four types of bonding interactions that occur in hair proteins. One of them (and the most important to this topic) is hydrogen bonds. Hydrogen bonds are typically weak, which means that they can change or break easily. When you style your hair with heat and then you walk outside on a humid summer day and your hair loses shape and frizzes up, that’s due to the hydrogen bonds in your hair breaking. Basically, any introduction of water will break the bonds and force your hair to go back to its original shape.” 

    Hydrogen bonds are what’s responsible for any shape your hair takes—whether you’re straightening it, applying a styler, or if it’s pressed down onto your head by a hat. In all of these situations, the hydrogen bonds are at work. If you wet your hair and reset it, the bonds are broken but then reform as they dry. 

    So, again, significant moisture (or even a lack thereof) in the air can compromise these bonds. If there’s a lack of moisture in the air, then the hydrogen in your hair will dissipate into the air to try and create a balance. (The result: Unwanted frizz!) If there is too much moisture in the air and it’s quite humid, then that moisture will break down the hydrogen bonds in your hair, almost as if you had wetted it and let it dry naturally. 

    What is hair porosity? How do you test hair porosity?

    How prone you are to frizz is usually determined by your hair’s porosity. The higher your porosity, the more porous your hair is, and the easier it lets moisture in and out, Bachowski says. It is these individuals who are more prone to frizzing. “Similarly, if your hair is not porous, then it will not absorb water quickly, but it will retain it.” In a perfect world, hair would absorb and retain moisture in a balanced way. 

    How do you know if your hair is porous, then? “One way to test porosity is to spray water on dry hair and watch how fast your hair absorbs the water and dries,” Bachowski explains. “The quicker it does, the higher the porosity.” 

    It could be hard to determine this without some sort of control to measure against. But, if you notice that your hair dries faster than your friends’ hair (at least those who have the same length/density), then you have a higher porosity than them. If your hair takes especially long to dry, then you have a lower porosity. 

    You can also take a clean, naturally fallen hair strand and submerge it in a clear glass of tap water. If it sinks, then it is highly porous, since it is taking in lots of water and succumbing as a result. If it floats, then it has low porosity. If it kinda hovers in between (and eventually sinks), then its porosity is some place in the middle. 

    Which hair types are most prone to frizz?

    Porosity isn’t the only influencing trait behind frizzing. “Hair that is thicker or curlier tends to be more dry,” Bachowski notes. “And with that, the hair is more prone to absorbing moisture, which will cause frizz.”

    You probably don’t need a hair type chart to tell you that your hair is frizzy—you deal with it every day. But, understanding your hair type could help you to understand what makes your hair frizzy. Whether you have thick wavy hair, straight thin hair, or super tight curly hair, knowing your hair type could also help you to find the right hair care products to tame your frizz and even prevent it without impacting other aspects of your hair. 

    Does frizz cause split ends?

    Don’t mistake frizzy hair with split ends. There is, however, a single correlation between the two, says Bachowski. 

    “They are both caused by dryness,” she explains. “Split ends are a physical condition caused by dry hair. Your hair, when it’s dry, becomes weak, making the ends of your hair more prone to breaking or splitting.” 

    Yes, the dryness also leads to frizzing, but that’s a separate issue. If you want to prevent split ends, then make sure to condition the ends of your hair regularly (since your scalp’s naturally nourishing sebum won’t likely make it to the end of longer strands, especially if they have any curl pattern). Secondly, says Bachowski, make sure to get your ends cleaned up at the salon or barber every six to eight weeks, to rid hair of any splitting and prevent further damage up the length of the affected strands.

    Why is my hair so frizzy?

    We already know that frizz happens on a microscopic level. But what makes hair frizzy on an everyday level? In other words, what real-world conditions and behaviors cause or exacerbate the broken hydrogen bonds that lead to unwanted frizzing?

    The environment

    When it comes to what causes frizzy hair, no climate or weather is your friend. 

    Hot summer humidity and dry winter weather both cause unwanted frizz by disrupting the happy stasis of our styled hair. And, even if you’re protected from the elements in a dry and air conditioned room, then you’re equally susceptible to frizz. 

    Humidity: “When it is humid, there is excess moisture in the air, so the hydrogen bonds within the makeup of our hair will absorb that moisture,” Bachowski explains. “This will cause hair to lose its shape and frizz.” 

    Dryness: “With cold weather, specifically winter, our hair is drier than any other time of the year. It will seek moisture to combat this and will absorb any and all moisture, leading to frizz.”

    So, if you’re asking yourself “why is my hair dry and frizzy” – the answer may as well be “planet Earth”!  

    Hair care and styling habits

    While you may not be able to control the environment, you can control your styling habits. So, if you’re wondering how to get rid of frizzy hair, here are some of the most common mistakes to avoid. 

    Not using moisturizing products 

    Those who regularly deal with unwanted frizz should audit their shower caddies! A lack of moisture is a huge part of what causes frizzy hair, meaning it’s imperative to use products that coat each hair’s cuticle and trap moisture inside. 

    Look out for products labeled as smoothing, hydrating, or moisturizing. Most importantly, follow any shampoo with a conditioner. Regardless of the conditioner’s secondary benefits, it will nourish and fuel the hair strands. Bachowski advises using products specifically designed for your hair type for best results. A moisturizing conditioner for straighter hair patterns or a curl-enhancing conditioner for curly hair will provide the biggest benefits. 

    Towel friction or constant re-styling

    “One main culprit for frizz is towel drying your hair,” Bachowski says. “Avoid using a fluffy bath towel and rubbing your hair vigorously. This can cause damage to the hair and create tons of frizz. Instead, you can use microfiber towels. When your hair is wet, make sure you gently squeeze out any excess moisture. Then, section your hair into workable pieces and squeeze each section with the towel to remove any remaining moisture.”

    Any kind of friction will lift the hair cuticle, which in turn leads to frizz or even breakage. “This includes playing with your hair or constantly trying to restyle it throughout the day,” she adds. 

    So, next time you ask yourself “Why is my hair frizzy?”—resist the urge to touch it! 

    Improper blow drying and lack of heat protection

    If you blow dry your hair to near-completion but leave a little water left behind, then you’re allowing that moisture to remain and compromise any hydrogen bonds that you created while styling. So, even though it seems counter-intuitive when trying to keep your hair moisturized, dry your hair to completion. For help getting the air evenly distributed to the root of the shaft, try using a diffuser attachment

    Lastly, always coat the hair with a heat protectant before using a hair dryer or any heat-based styling tool. Heat protectants close off the cuticles which ensures that the tool dries the outside of the hairs without dehydrating the interior of the strands themselves.

    How to get rid of frizzy hair

    Correcting the above mistakes will be the biggest help in combating unwanted frizz. So, if Bachowski has a core underlying message for you to take away from this article, it’s this: 

    “Maintaining moisture in the hair is the most important step. If your hair is moisturized, it won’t be prone to absorbing moisture from the environment, which causes your perfectly styled hair to revert back to its natural state. Make sure you are using high quality, moisturizing shampoo, conditioners, and styling products.” 

    From curl creamsstrong hold gels, and leave-in conditioners to masks,hair oils, and nourishing styling gels, there are plenty of hair care products you can incorporate into your daily or weekly routine for a frizz-free finish. Again, for best results, make sure you use hair products designed for your hair type.

    Take the Prose consultation and stay frizz-free

    Don’t let frizzy hair get in the way of a good time. With the right products and a tailored hair care routine, you can keep your hair healthy, smooth, and manageable no matter what life throws your way. 

    For help creating the best routine for your hair type and your specific hair care needs, start your free Prose consultation today. Work with our team of experts to build a range of custom-made hair products filled with natural ingredients your hair will love.

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